FULL CIRCLE

26 12 2008

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Probably this year more so than others I have a sense of real thanksgiving.  From my parents who very supportively helped me on this haphazard road, to my distant relatives who crossed an ocean a century ago, to a new love, I now feel part of the crossings.  I suppose I have engaged in communion with the ghosts of Christmas past as well, as I have crossed the Lánchíd a few times this holiday season.  As I have set my gaze in the path of the eyeless lions at its helm, and seen the lights of Parliament bright as candles.

And at first, I wanted to write about the differences in holiday traditions.  How odd it is for me to imagine a baby Jesuska flying in the gifts instead of Santa.  But instead I’m sentimentalizing.  Opting for connections instead.  Despite distances, I have been welcomed into surrogate families, secondary homes, new first countries.  And I realize how fortunate I am, and how brilliant the world can be, at times, regardless of era or season.

I’ll be in Dublin for the next week, so I’ll write again on the flip side.  Thank you, dear internet, for another blessed year.  So from Budapest, with love, Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year.  Kellemes karácsonyt és boldog új évet.





Weekday Market and Holiday Cheer

17 12 2008

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No one looks great at 5 am, let’s face it, unless you have a team jacking you up with enough fekete kávé to paralyze a small Californian exchange student, or you have, in your employ, a Hollywood stylists slathering you cheek to cheek with some kind of collagen enhanced cucumber moisturizer.  For the bags.  Under the eyes.

There are plenty of cucumbers at the Lehel market on weekday mornings.  The best of the pickings, actually, even in a cucumber-crazed country.  But no one ever turns them into moisturizer.  And no one much cares about how they look in the early morning stalls.  Which is probably why I love to go to the market early in the weekday morning.  In a sea of bed-head hair, barely zipped fleeces, mismatched shoes, an occasional renegade lemon or parsley bulb rolling onto the floor and the I-just-don’t-have-the-energy-to-go-get-that slumps—I feel right at home.

Being that the holiday season is now officially here, schools are out, workers are nearly, I would have thought things would change a bit in the market.  But other than the occasional lights and angels, things are pretty normal.  In fact, the holiday season is a bit odd in this city of opposing forces—market stall v. trendy boutique, the Váci in district V closed to cars v. Váci in district XIII with the all you can eat Chinese BBQ.  But the holiday season as I know it in America (first of all starts in October) is excessively commercialized.  And in being completely honest to you, Internet, I miss it just a little bit.  Of course we’re always complaining about it in America, because that’s what we do best.  “Oh, it’s so commercial.” “Yes, the spirit of Christmas is dead.”  “There’s no kindness and giving anymore.”  And so forth.  But that’s the way it goes.  The overstuffed malls and stores and city streets and colors and perfumes and wrapping paper stalls and santa bells and bell choirs and green dresses and patent leather shoes and bows and poinsettias are IN YOUR FACE all of the time.  Or maybe it takes leaving it to think of it as a comfort rather than a demoralizing foray into the heart of seasonal darkness.

I recall several years ago watching TV on Christmas Eve with my dad and brother.  My mom was taking baked brie out of the oven and we were sort of paying attention to the local news.  They were doing a special report about the shortages of hams at Honey Baked Ham (or as my brother refers to it—the Hammary—after one holiday work season he spent coolly becoming the regional leader in corporate ham sales).  The reporter was talking to people outside the line and then she snagged the big interview with this guy very tightly squeezed into an old Browns sweatshirt (Cleveland uniform of choice).  He was one of the lucky ones who got one of the last hams in the city and when asked how it made him feel he replied, “I got me a ham.  Hallelujah.  Praise Jesus.”  And yes, that was the lead story on Christmas Eve, and yes there is a certain God Bless Americaness in getting one of those last hams.  And I don’t even like ham, but I can appreciate the spirit of it.

One thing for sure is that the city (Budapest, that is) is decorated really lovely—especially the touristy bits.  And the Christmas market, which I’ll write about later, completely sings with the warm moods of the season.  The celebration is different here.  It’s less about symbols and more about the family.  Also, before the 25th, I’m going to try to explain exactly what the tradition is here (i.e—who puts the presents under the tree, what’s up with December 6th, and does baby Jesus fly?)—but I need to put my Hungarian contacts on notice so that they have a few days to come up with a well thought out answer.





Among other names, Bratislava

12 12 2008

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FIRST SIGNS

So you know that you’re actually learning the infamously difficult Hungarian language when you start recognizing and understanding signs.  Street signs.  Signs on buildings.  Advertisements.  Gyógyszertár, for example.  The old Hungarian word for pharmacy. Which is why you should be able to understand my bafflement when I started recognizing all kinds of signs in Hungarian, though we were in the capital of Slovakia.

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The day after Thanksgiving, we went to Bratislava.  Though the biggest city in Slovakia, it’s relatively small compared to Budapest (about 4.5 times smaller, in fact).  And what I didn’t know at the time, though I should have done a better job with my travel research, was that Bratislava was once the capital of the Kingdom of Hungary (during the Habsburgs—1536-1783).  In fact Austrians still call the city Pressburg and Hungarians call the city Pozsony, which was on all of the signs heading out of Budapest.

A LITTLE INVASION HERE, A LITTLE OCCUPATION THERE

Like much of Central Europe, we can trace first inhabitants back all the way to the Neolithic era, but since this blog ‘aint about that, let’s just skip forward a few millennia to the Romans, who luckily brought the talent of growing and squeezing the grape to the region.  Like in Hungary, you don’t go out and order a pitcher of Bud.  You drink wine.  White wine.

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So, the city became part of Hungary in the 10th century.  A few things happened with the Ottomans and then the Habsburgs, as often did.  Maria Theresa of Austria took a great liking to the place the 18th century, though the city started to go down a bit once the crown jewels were moved to Austria and most of the nobility to Buda.  For the purposes of most of us who are not Central European history buffs, just note that this cute little jewel was tossed around by just about everyone you can think of in the area, as many of the cities in the area were.

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It has a long history of struggle, and therefore the nationalist movement, the want to be independent and recognized as so, is as strongly felt in Bratislava as it is in Budapest.  My Grandmother always proudly declares herself Czechoslovakian.  But I never knew what it meant, except that by the early 90s we weren’t calling it that anymore.  But just eight months before she was born, in 1919, the Czechs and Slovakas got themselves fired up, expelled the Hungarian army, and moved themselves into the capital, Bratislava, finally officially adopting that name for the city.

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Of course the Germans and Hungarians see it a little differently, but this is a place where no one has ever been able to hold onto their city for that long without an invader coming through and taking it away.  So the stories of national pride are as much part of the person as anywhere else.  This is not like “I’m a patriot–I have an American Flag on my bumper sticker.”  No, that’s a symbol.  Here, it’s absolutely part of your marrow.

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Anyway, even good independent intentions don’t sick around for long.  A year after the Slovaks declared their own independent republic, it fell under the Nazis.  And less than a decade later, it was overrun by Communists and became part of the infamous Eastern Bloc.  A few uprisings here and there and suddenly it’s 1989 and the Velvet Revolution (or as Slovaks call it—the Gentle Revolution) is taking place.  Starting with a peaceful protest among students in Prague, the masses eventually swelled to over 200,000.  The communists gave up, opening up the boarders with Austria and Western Germany.  Finally, in 1993, it became Bratislava, capital of the Slovak Republic.  That was just 15 years ago.  It’s no wonder people hold on fiercely to their national loyalties.

BRATISLAVA AND THE CHRISTMAS MARKET

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The ethnic influence from Czechs, Germans, Hungarians, and Jews really complimented the already rich historical and cultural backgrounds, and it resulted in a city that feels alive and open.  Granted we were there when the temperature was so cold it nearly marbleized our faces and any other exposed skin.  But I think we all really enjoyed walking around the city center.

Like in every major city here this time of year, there was a Christmas market underway.  Street venders set up shop with their folk art and other homemade items.  Though it was a workday, and again, painfully cold, by lunchtime it seemed nearly everyone flocked down from their offices to eat lunch, outside, at the street vendors.  Now in Budapest, you can get a few things:  Sausage, kemencés lángos (it’s like a pizza with sour cream and ham and people go wackadoodle for it), fired-turned kürtös kalács with cinnamon sugar (which I go wackadoodle for), and hot wine.  In Slovakia, there were similarities.  Hot wine, of course, which absolutely everyone was drinking.  And there were about ten stands dedicated to making chicken sandwiches with grilled onions, which absolutely everyone was eating.

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After lunch we toured around a bit more, took some pictures, had a cappuccino, and bought some presents.  We left around 4:30 just before our frozen fingers snapped off, and in time to get across the Danube and miss the rush hour traffic in both Bratislava and back home in Budapest.

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Like Budapest, there was a real magic in being there at the Christmas market during this time of year.  It gets you into the holiday mood without being commercial.  You’re outside around people.  The language and cultural differences don’t matter.  Everyone is warming their hands with the mugs of hot wine, waiting in the long line for roasted chestnuts, watching the sun set over the city center and the Christmas lights dazzle on the tree.

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Gellért on the Day of Thanks

9 12 2008

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I would imagine that not many Thanksgiving Days begin with a mad last minute dash to the local British supermarket.  But ours did, and it was to Tesco (the British super grocery store found all over Europe).  Now keep in mind, this was NOT on my Thanksgiving Day activity/cooking schedule, which I had been writing and revising for weeks.  So I really had to keep Györgyi on a fast pace—(lacking all sense of unnecessary American urgency, she is infamously slow in all shopping situations). But it was an American holiday, and we really had to hustle to get the last things for the salad and wild rice casserole and stuffing that I had neglected to get in my high fever daze on Tuesday at the Cora (the Belgium “hypermarket”).

The reason why we were in such a rush was because we wanted to get back in time to go to the second most important activity for Thanksgiving Day: the Gellért Thermal Baths.  Luckily, the travel-savvy Brandy was able to hail a cab in the XIII district to get there by 11, and we were able to join her about an hour later.  Despite the reshuffling and quasi misery it caused to my later cooking schedule (no, I hadn’t prepared myself emotionally or physically for having to gut the turkey), it was really worth the trip there, and was something I had been wanting to do ever since arriving in Budapest nearly six months ago.

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The site of the baths has been host to “healing” waters for centuries.  Baths were built there during the Ottoman Empire, a hospital erected on the site during the Middle Ages, and the Gellért spa as we (mostly) know it today was built in the Art Nouveau style between 1912 and 1918.  As with many of the precious architectural treasures of the city, it was damaged during WWII, though rebuilt soon after.

The effervescent swimming pool can be seen from a large window in the succession style lobby.  It really seems like you’re experiencing yourself watching an old movie, seeing all of the old ladies and men swimming neatly around the pool in a circle—swim caps neatly fitted—goggles freshly cleaned.  And to remind you it is Europe, a German woman gets out of the pool in scuba training gear and proceeds to the women’s locker room.

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The baths are sex segregated, as clothing is optional, and pictures are strictly forbidden, though I regret not taking my camera now because it seemed like every other American tourist was wholly ignoring the no-pictures rule.  There are two pools within the women’s area—one that is 36 C and one that is 38 C.  The closer you get to the marble wall were the mineral water spills out, the warmer the pool is.

The water comes from the Gellért hills and has always been thought to have healing properties, something we were debating while we were lounging at the pool watching woman after woman swim over to the water sources and let the hot spring splash onto aching joints and muscles.  The water contains calcium, magnesium, hydrocarbonate, alkalis, chloride, sulfate, and fluoride.  All good things, of course, though I don’t think I was there long enough, nor free of my Thanksgiving cooking schedule enough to fully ingest the healing properties.

The Thanksgiving cooking was the second time I’ve prepared the meal alone, and the first time for company.  I made the basics of our family’s traditions:  baked brie, turkey, stuffing, mashed p’s, cranberry sauce, salad, corn and wild rice cass, and bread.  And because I’m a completely incompetent baker, I opted for Brownies (found in the “International” section of the Tesco) and luckily Nóri brought carrot cake and Zsanett brought Oreos, so the American festivities were complete.

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We capped off the night talking to the fam back home in Ohio, which was, of course, bittersweet.  But there was a certain magic to it as well.  Brandy and I both come from a Hungarian line.

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And to be here, in Budapest, celebrating the American holiday—to give thanks for being the great-grandchildren of Hungarian immigrants who left this very city a century ago to achieve and then celebrate the American dream—well it was very special. One for the books, I’d say.





Snow Falling on Castle

3 12 2008

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On Sunday, Brandy’s first full day in Budapest, we were caught inside most of the day, surprised by the cold, snowy weather.  Usually November comes to Hungary with more clouds than usual, some rain, but the temperature usually hovers around 5C, which if you are a northeastern Ohio native, 40F (especially at 6am) in late November is practically balmy.  So we were discouraged when seemingly out of no where, the sky opened up and the snow started to fall Saturday night, just as we were on our way to the airport.

But on Sunday morning, I opened the window to the bedroom and took a picture in the early light.  Before I came to Europe, it was always my little fantasy to look out and see rooftops covered in snow.  It was really the perfect moment.

Undeterred by the poor weather start to the week, we took the bus to the Lánchid bridge, and walked across to meet Györgyi for lunch at Marvelosa, one of our favorite little workweek lunch joints.  They always have a lovely daily menu and the atmosphere is cozy and unpretentiously arty.

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For some reason the bridge was covered in Canadian flags.  Now I’ve been here for nearly six months, so these little oddities no longer surprise me.  But imagine if you will, the most famous bridge in your country, and then on certain weeks seeing other countries’ flags adorning it.  I hope Brandy was able to get some pictures without the flags, though, so that she won’t look back on this trip twenty years from now and think, where was this in Canada?

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After lunch we took the Sikló, which is like an old incline, up the face of the castle wall.  It’s 800 Forints for a 1 way ticket (about 4 dollars), which is harder to justify in the summer if you’re capable of making the long trek up to the castle, but in the Canadian-arctic-like temperatures, we were happy to hitch a ride.  It also gave us a really spooky view of the snow coating and fog rising from the Danube.  It was almost impossible to see Parliament, which is a common site just across the river.

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We spent about 45 minutes walking around the castle district, popping into a few shops along the way to get warm.  At Fisherman’s Bastion we saw about 20 tourists with umbrellas, a familiar site in any weather.  Brandy commented that even though the weather was snowy, the castle seemed really suited for snow cover.  And I have to agree.

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Even with the noisy umbrellas in the background, the district was uncharacteristically quiet.  Some children were running and throwing snowballs.  A few shop owners were warming hot wine or sweeping the snow off the stoop.  So with the power of hindsight vision and the comfort of my warm apartment, I can fully remember it as a lovely wintry evening in Buda.





Hálaadás

1 12 2008

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My cousin Brandy was visiting last week from D.C, so I have a lot of pictures and stories to catch up with this week.  It was lovely to have family in for Thanksgiving (Hálaadás, in Hungarian), which Brandy, Györgyi, and I celebrated on Thursday night with some other great Hungarian gals, Zsanett, Nóri and Brigi.  We signed onto ichat around 9pm Central European time and saw our grandmother’s amazement at being able to talk to us live.

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The week went well even though I was still fighting my seemingly never-ending cold.  We saw the first snow of the season (something very unusual this time of year), fought the frigid wind chill while touring the castle, and visited several city neighborhoods and towns.  On Friday we even went to the Christmas Market in Bratislava, Slovakia.

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This time of the year always races by, it seems, but I have to admit to not minding it this year.  While I’ve grown to adore my life here in Budapest, and am thoroughly looking forward to the Christmas markets both here and in Vienna, which we will hopefully see in a few weeks, I am officially counting down the last four weeks until I meet my parents and brother in Dublin.